Julia, 19, queer, from the Tampa FL area


I’m going on a date with a girl and whAT Do I weaR? Do I get HER FLowers ? Would It be Creepy to call her (herherher HER) “beautiful”? Halp

cant believe you didnt tell me about this!

Q: What exactly is wrong with being attached to a family member or spouse?


1. Attachment does not equal love. Sometimes we confuse the two so much we think that attachment alone is proof of love. Then love becomes more of an assumed thing rather than a visceral experience from the heart. 

2. Attachment limits that person’s freedom. Have you ever had a family member or spouse that is attached to you and calls it love? Perhaps you may already know the things people do to try to control each other in the name of love and attachment. 

"You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free." ~ Thich Nhat Hanh

Attachment is the opposite of giving freedom to others. 

3. Attachment is delusional. Impermanence is a fact of life. So what does that make attachment? Attachment is not only the opposite of giving freedom to others but also giving freedom to life. 

However, will life heed you? Will life care whether or not you are attached to something before taking it away? 

Therefore attachment means being out of harmony with life’s natural changes. 

4. Lack of or absence of attachment does not mean being uncaring, uninterested, or numb. It means making peace with what is. When someone we love dies, we do not spend the rest of our life in grief if we want to live sanely. We learn to let go and accept, even while we keep that love and sadness in our hearts. 

To be unattached means to let go and accept life on a moment to moment basis. You take nothing for granted. You do not assume that what is here today will be here tomorrow. And so you can be more grateful, more loving, and more present. 

Our society has very silly and thoughtless values. One of them is attachment, believing attachment is important. It’s not. 

"All your seriousness is about sandcastles. And you yourself will leave them one day, trampling them down, and you will not look back." ~ Osho

Namaste :)

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sometimes I think about crashing my car into the concrete pillars of the highway overpass doing 90 just so something real can happen

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since that wage post is going around again here’s a reminder that it’s still legal in the US to pay disabled people 22 CENTS AN HOUR

Goodwill got shit for this for like five minutes but there’s a poster in the back room at my job that says the…


"Too many books?" I believe the phrase you’re looking for is "not enough bookshelves".

→ Why Are You Questioning My Need for a Wheelchair?


When non-spoonies are like “oh have a shower, it’ll make you feel better”. Do you have any idea of the effort it takes to get in the shower? One does not simply bathe




"Every Woman Should Feel Like A Goddess" - Model Asia Mone’t
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Photography by Guy Carter

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Goddess Wrap Dress by Hadiiya Barbel

In love with this Elila bra.

oh she is PERFECT






Stand up to injustice and hatred.

Look at that jackass go “I - I don’t like it”, as if it even matters. Sit yo stupid ass down, boy.

tumblr likes to post these kind of things without context, but i figured before everyone starts hating this guy they should know that his name is yousef erakat, a muslim youtuber from palestine, and he is performing a social experiment to see how people would react to someone attacking a woman in a hijab.

the video is here for people who want to watch it

”it’s her choice ” my ass . I’m pretty sure she was forced to wear that thing by her family , religion and stuff  

Look at this asshole.

Laugh at this asshole.

I’m a muslim, and at the age of thirteen, my mum and dad asked me if I wanted to wear a hijab. I said I’d think on it, and then later replied with no.

My sister said yes.

Almost every muslim woman (except for the bullshit propaganda your uneducated ignorant ass sees on CNN) is given the choice to wear a hijab.

Why don’t you take your ignorant comments and shove them up your ass, before I bitch slap you so hard you smash into the surface of the fucking sun.

Fucking asshole.

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attention spoonie travelers!
im going to Washington dc next month and am worried about my pain. the last time I did even close to this amount of standing and walking was at disney and I was in so much pain I was in tears.
I never use mobility aids in my daily life (although I’ve been seriously…

attention spoonie travelers!
im going to Washington dc next month and am worried about my pain. the last time I did even close to this amount of standing and walking was at disney and I was in so much pain I was in tears.
I never use mobility aids in my daily life (although I’ve been seriously considering it). but im wondering if I should get something and if I do, what. I don’t think a cane would do much to help, a scooter would be too much price, space, and convenience-wise. should I go with wheelchair? it seems to make the most sense considering my pain is usually my back and legs. how can I easily and affordably get one? I have a doctors appointment before I leave that will hopefully result in a diagnosis. would she have to write a script for one? or should I just rent one in dc?
im so lost. this is all very new to me so any advice would be greatly appreciated!